If you are not socially identified , and useful to society , your life becomes useless as a contaminated stagnant pool of water.
Your life should be like a flowing river, leaving behind bad things,
gathering good things, and knowledge. AND YOUR LIFE BECOMES
A TRUE RIVER LIKE LIVELY EVERFLOWING EVER ALIVE.

statutory relations like parents, husband and wife,  the world over are failing. Because there is no truth in it. Love of all is Truth.
It will sustain. Love a tree, Love a dog, Love an insect, Love the snake.  It will biologically sustain your body and mind.

Loving only one person seems selfish.
it is not wrong,  if you do not hate others .
Some do discriminate others.


We should target our life on the people, friends, and on being helpful

to society. Form street clubs, societies to organise people together,

let there be humanism, love and affection among all. Take other children as your own. Love of one's own child or parents is not
anything Worth It. It is a statutory requirment. But we should not
offend it. We should instead give respect and love to our own people
as though they are outsiders. Keeping a distance and keeping close
together helps. Find out yourself how to do it moderately as it
suits your psyche. All are not alike.